Create XML MP3 Flash Player

I need a customized xml mp3 flash player for my website. I need the following capabilities: 1. Change background color 2. Change row colors 3. Change font style, color, size 4. Change player width & height (so that I can have a scroll if I choose but if there are 20 songs and I don't want visitors to scroll they can see the entire list) 5. Change row width & height or make default height of 25px 6. Change column width 7. Create and hide http links (such as those seen in the attached layoupt, to be able to view/hide categories, cd list and contributing artists) 8. These links will lead to html pages that I will create separately 9. Change volume output along w/ pause, stop buttons and other buttons shown below 10. Add/edit/delete music genres 11. Edit/delete tracks 12. List artist, track title, album title, etc. 13. Include duration of each track 14. Rows should auto number with the addition of each track 15. Should be able to add unlimited tracks 16. I want to add http links to each buy link for each track 17. Play button next to each song 18. When another track is selected, previous track stops playing 19. Ability to add thumbnail at the top of the playlist **ORIGINAL PLAYER** 20. Original player should not be wider than 640 px wide if possible 21. Rows should be 25 px high 22. Transparent background 23. Every other row color 404040 and 1b1b1b with a 1 to 2px space between rows 24. Use Verdana font size 11 25. Use font color b6b09b with row roll over highlight effect using background color 848484 26. Can you prevent the real player "download this clip" from popping up when the player is being used by visitors? **MISCELLANEOUS** I don't need capability for people to buy and download music.